Welcome to Men's Only Sex Information & Sex Blog List

At Mens Only Sex Toys we believe in the freedom of information and that the general public should have access to that information. The listings here are not for porn sites or sex industry workers, they are intended to give a list of genuine sex information for the advancement of people understanding of there sexuality and there own self knowledge. We believe in safe, sane and consensual sex between consenting adults and we intend this page to become a helpful tool as people travel down the long road to discovering there own sexually.

Only by asking and sharing information can we best understand our sexuality and understand that we are not alone in that journey… Please feel free to share with us your thoughts and links to some great sex information sites and always remember you are not alone….

Kittens Toy Room’s “Ask The kitten”

Many of our customers email kitten asking questions relating to the BDSM Lifestyle, Alternative Lifestyle and Questions Relating to there sex lives and the relationship of sex in there sexual relationships.

Here you can “Ask the kitten” any question you want and she will try to give you an open and honest answer. Simply “Click” here to "Ask The Kitten"

If you don’t want your question and answer posted on this site, please let us know in the email and we will simply email you then answer (without posting it).

Also we never post peoples email addresses and just the question and answer with a nickname and state, so it’s already for you to ask the kitten.

"MOST" Cock Ring Information

We at Kittens Toy Room have been asked so many times about the most prevalent and common of male sex toys the Cock Ring; that we have now placed a special page up dedicated to them alone. Often considered a simple product by so many the reality is that people have trouble with the simplest of things like, sizing and choosing cock rings. Hopefully this page will help to answer some of your questions and you can always email us with any specific questions you have about cock rings or any other sex toy.

Kittens Cock Ring Sizing and Information Page

From A Submissives View

Hello… my name is kitten, I am a branded life slave to Sir Anthony and the co-owner of Kittens Toy Room. When Sir asked me to add some things into this blog I thought what the heck can I write about?? Well I think that to start out I will put up some of the most important documents that I have seen written. “The Submissives Creed, Submissives Rights and The Slaves Prayer.” These three documents have been around the lifestyle for a while and I feel are a wonderful foundation to what a submissive should be about. Yes, we all strive to be better for our Dom/mes, and for ourselves, and for a submissive this is a constant and ongoing and very much a daily challenge. Within these three documents you can usually find the foundation to the start of an answer that you may have had questioned, or just as a guideline and help thru everyday circumstances that you encounter. They are the basis from where our submissiveness expands.

Slaves Prayer

Submissives Creed

Submissives Rights

Fetish Underground Chat Room

We are proud to bring you our new portal to the Fetish Underground, it's a great place to meet others interested in Alternative Sex Lives and Lifestyles. In fact it's where kitten and I first meet, so we have a very soft spot in our hearts for this Chat Room. You can meet some very interesting people from around the world and perhaps that very special person that you have been looking for: just like kitten and I ..:)

"MOST" Piercing & Body Jewelry Information

Many people consider, having themselves pierced in one form or another at some time in their lives. Whether the piercing is from your ears to a piece or part of you that is a bit more extreme. I have seen some piercing's out there in the lifestyle, that I think to myself WHY? But obviously each and every person has reasoning for getting every piercing that they have.

For me my piercing’s have not only been for enjoyment reasons, but also as a way to symbolize my submission to my Sir.

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Kittens Body Piercing Article

"MOST" Alternative Lifestyle Books

Books on the Lifestyle

Personally I have read thru more Lifestyle books, both Non-fiction and Fiction than most will in a lifetime. Although Not an extensive listing, the books that I have found most helpful and most intriguing are on my website. Although I couldn’t put all of them on, (I don’t think that there are enough pages on the World Wide Web to do this) I have picked out a handful of books that I feel are Exceptional. I have also included here a more wide spread listing of books also that I have found on the web. Thanks to the Janis Society (One of the oldest of all the BDSM clubs originated in California)

Our Books at Kitten’s Toy Room

Kittens Book Selection

Sex Toys Cleaning & Hygiene

In these days of very public media coverage on STD’s (Sexually Transmitted Disease) we have put together some ideas and comments on Sex Toy Cleaning and Lifestyle Hygiene. It’s interesting to point out that safe, sane and consensual goes well past those that we immediately play with. It also stands for those that play with the toys we have played with after our use....

Sex Toy Cleaning & Hygiene

Meeting Over The Internet

There are succes stories out there of people meeting in sex chat rooms and going on to meet up in real life, falling in love and have wonderful long term relationships. Myself and kitten being one of those couples (our portal to the Fetish Under Ground is linked here on the side), we have had wonderful lives together reaching our true potential together. You also can meet that special person, but there are some safety rules that you should follow.........

Kittens Full Article

The Dominates Creed - Masters Creed

This document is usually called the Masters Creed, however I am sure you will agree that it is really relevant to both genders and has something for all of us within its wisdom. Many times people in the vanilla world just see what’s written in the press and media about the lifestyle and have no idea of the responsibility that a true Dominate has to live up to. After we included the submissive creed, submissive rights and slaves prayer, we felt that we need some balance and hopefully this will start to balance and provoke some thought.

The Dominates Creed

The Fight Against Hate

Kittens Toy Room is at the forefront of the Fight Against Hate, the misnomers and false accusations levered at the BSM, Leather and other Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Comminutes. Here is place to add your comments and links to other groups and organizations battling in the fight against hate, there are some wonderful organizations now with a band of lawyers to help you in your battle.....

Fighting Hate

Alternative Lifestyle Humor & Jokes

Well Hello Everyone!! Ok so I thought, geez we are a company from Wisconsin, and I don’t know about anyone else, but I need a good laugh now and again. Someone had sent me this a long time back and it still makes me roll in Laughter, I hope everyone else enjoys it as much as I did!! Or at least sees my sick Humor in it. Giggling. It may take a little bit to load it, but it is WELL worthwhile...

I'm a Cow

Kittens Humor & Joke Page

International Mr. Leather (IML 2005)

Well one of the worlds great fetish events is coming up soon 27th-31st May 2003, this is a tremendous event with literally thousands of participants and although its a primarily Gay Event many of us in the pan-sexual world just love going for its richness and leather culture. Don't miss this event, its simply stunning...!!

International Mr. Leather

Strange Sex Laws Across the USA

Well when we wonder where our tax money is going you don’t have to look too far, there are some strange sex laws all over the world that are indicative to their culture. But you don’t have to look over seas to find them; we have collected just a few of these little government money wasters...............

Strange Sex Laws (USA)

Your Sexual Taste Changes with Age

We get hundreds of emails from customers every month asking questions about how they feel sexually today verses how they felt about it 20 years ago, when they where in there teens and 20’s. It appears to us that many don’t really find there true sexual path until latter in there lives, perhaps it’s the fact that peoples life experiences takes time to mold there sexuality or its just as the kids leave they can explore it more freely.......

Mature Sexuality

Thoughts on Male Chastity

Chastity Devices in particular Male Chastity Devices have become one of the hottest conversation subjects in the BDSM arena of late. Not only in this theatre of conversation but also in the vanilla world it would seem, that many are finding that chastity and fidelity go hand in hand. Is it the fact that what we cant have is what we want them most and could it be that giving piece of mind to ones partner creates a mutually beneficiall environment that both partners enjoy and feel safer with?

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The History of Sadomasochism

I find it highly amazing that a lifestyle which we are trying to convince society is safe, sane and consensual, has so little on what the history of it actually is. I went thru many websites, and did a lot of research thru books and I think that this is the most complete that I have seen out there. It also includes a lot of great info on the lifestyle in laymen enough terms that anyone even a vanilla could understand, and some of the most informative websites for links for further reading.
The History of Sadomasochism

How to be a S.A.M. (more humor)..

Well everyone keeps telling me that I am a quintessential S.A.M. (Smart Ass Masochist) so I thought I would let everyone in on the handbook I use. We wouldn’t want anyone to get misled down the wrong path to S.A.M-dom. Giggling. Enjoy as much as I did!! Thank you Alkallah for putting into words what so many of us S.A.M.’s try to portray!!

How to be a S.A.M.

The Most Common FAQ 's for Swingers

Today we have another contribution by Sue of Club Adventure, there appears to be a lot of confusion out there on the general basics of the Swingers Lifestyle and with good council Sue has given us a list of basics to publish for our readers. There is some good common sense within her basic FAQ on swinging, its usually the same thought out life is it not; that common sense usually has all the answers and we over complicate issues ourselves.

We hope this helps those that are looking into the Swingers Lifestyle as an alternative to there normal sexual experince and also as a refresher to those that already swing and may need a little remind on ther journey.

Sue's FAQ for Swingers

Before You Get Started Swinging

We have has so many people ask us about swinging that we have asked an expert on the matter, Sue of Club Adventure to join us with both her vast experince with the Swingers Lifetsyle and as a Jounalist. The first of her contributions start with the basics (by By Edgar W. Butler, Ph.D. and edited by Sue) and you might find this artical more than interesting. There are so many more factors to be considered before one starts in the Swingers Lifestyle and like all things in life there are some very indepth questions to ask each other and to be answered HONESTLY first...

Sue's Article

Bisexuality What Is It!!!

Many people have the false impression of what Bi Sexuality is. Some people believe that they can have the best of all worlds with a Bi Sexual partner, common misconception. Some don’t want anything to do with a bisexual because of the factor of getting hurt or left for the other sex. There are so many facets of bisexuality, just as there are in all lifestyles out there. There is not One right or wrong. But over the years bisexuality has been split up onto 13 different types of bisexuality defined by sexual desires and experiences. Which one are you? If Any?

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"BDSM" Gotta Start out Somewhere!!

Well no matter what we go out in life to achieve, none of us were born with all the information that we have accumulated over the years. And the same goes with the BDSM lifestyle. The information is a vast ocean of people, making comments on what they feel is right and not right in the lifestyle. Me I like to stay on middle ground. As I feel, BDSM has a base with certain basic protocols, and respect towards others. And from there we spout out into our own little likes and dislikes we put our little twists and kinks in to our relationships, things that seem to make them work for US. Here are two really good authors, one which I have met in person. This covers some tips to breaking out into the BDSM lifestyle. I hope you enjoy it, I know I did. Also if you like this article, Jay Wiseman has also written a great book called SM 101, which is highlighted in today’s book review. :)

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